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Vital Things to Know During the First Trimester of Pregnancy

June 7, 2017 by Basil Puglisi Leave a Comment

Authored by Eva Sandra

Pregnancy is a very crucial period in the life of every woman aspiring to be a mother. She needs to be careful from the very beginning, as soon as she learns about her pregnancy. A pregnant woman should be taken care of by her family members, mainly by her husband. The first trimester is considered as the most critical period of pregnancy, as the baby grows from the fetus stage during this time. Therefore, the mother-to-be should take care of certain matters during this first trimester to safeguard her baby and her own health.

Most important factors to be cared during the first trimester of pregnancy

  • A pregnant woman normally gains weight due to the additional weight of her baby, but there is very little weight gain during the first trimester, as the baby is still at a fetus stage and too tiny to add extra weight to mother’s body. Moreover, the woman feels nauseated during this stage and is likely to lose some weight as a result. Therefore, during the first trimester of pregnancy, the mother-to-be needs to actually try for gaining some weight, though being overweight can also be harmful for the baby’s growth.
  • It is necessary to eat very healthy foods at this stage of pregnancy, for the well-being of both the child and the mother. Vegetarian women need to eat lots of whole grain cereals, pulses, nuts, fresh fruits and vegetables; while the non-vegetarian mothers should include good amounts of lean meat, fish and eggs in their regular diet. It is best to follow a diet chart planned by an experienced dietician during the whole pregnancy period.
  • The presence of proteins and fibers are essential in the daily meals of the pregnant women during this first trimester. An adequate amount of calcium intake is necessary for the proper growth of the bones of the baby, which is available from milk, yogurt and other healthy milk products. But some foods, like soft cheese, hot dogs, less cooked meat and raw eggs should be avoided, to prevent bacterial infections.
  • The intake of omega 3 fatty acids should be increased, in the form flax seeds and sea fish, for the better development of the baby’s internal organs. But a few sea fish with high amount of mercury should be avoided, like mackerel and tilefish.
  • Many expecting mothers have a problem feeling nauseous from the smells of many usual things during this trimester, so it is necessary for them to avoid all kinds of perfumes, smelly foods like garlic and tangy pastas.
  • Daily intake of Vitamin D is very important for a pregnant woman for the bone development of a baby. Foods like egg yolks, milk, cod liver oil, sardines, tuna fish, salmon and herring are rich sources of Vitamin D. Vitamin B or Folic Acid is also a very important nutrient for an expecting mother. She should take prescribed Vitamin B supplement or Folic Acid capsules daily, to keep both mother and baby at peak health during this trimester. Foods, like beans, soybean, sunflower seed oil, peanuts, green leafy vegetables and liver are all natural sources of Folic Acid and thus, important for a pregnant woman.
  • Adequate amounts of iron should be present in the meals of a pregnant woman, to prevent anemia, as large amount of iron are needed to form the baby’s blood. The iron can be obtained from spinach and other green leafy vegetables, sesame seeds, legumes, lean meat, fish and eggs.
  • A pregnant woman should never eat large amount of foods at a time, even if she feels hungry; rather she needs to eat small amounts of food at short intervals of 2-3 hours, to prevent the problems of nausea, bloating and acidity during the first trimester of pregnancy.
  • The fluid intake of a pregnant woman should increase to a great amount, for preventing the problems of constipation and dehydration, as well as to enhance the total volume of blood in the body. So it is a good idea to sip in ice cold water or fruit juice, for getting rid of the feeling of nausea at this period.
  • Pregnant women should continue doing mild exercises during the whole pregnancy, which is easier during the first trimester because of slimmer body figure at this time. Regular evening walks and light aerobics can help in fighting the chance of caesarian birth of the baby, as well as decrease the sugar level in diabetic patients. The doctor should be consulted before starting any sort of exercise routine during the pregnancy.
  • Lots of rest is essential for maintaining the good health of a pregnant woman and she should often take short naps as is possible, to fight the fatigue, nausea and heartburn that are mostly caused due to hormonal changes during pregnancy.
  • Pregnant women need to stop drinking coffee and other caffeinated drinks starting from the initial period of pregnancy, as the caffeine intake may cause a miscarriage in patients suffering from hypertension.
  • The first trimester of pregnancy is marked with several blood tests and various other physiological tests to ensure safe baby birth and the sound health of the mother. The family of a pregnant woman should  take her to the doctor for the checkups and prenatal tests.
  • The pregnant women should not take any over-the-counter medicine, even in case of minor fever or cold. The doctor should be consulted for every physical problem and no medicine should be taken without a prescription, to avoid any negative effects of any medicine on the health of the mother and baby.
  • The pregnant woman should quit smoking and drinking alcohol completely, from the very first day, when she finds out about her pregnancy.

All the above tips should be maintained to ensure a safe birth of a healthy baby, as well as retaining the best health of the mother.

References:

  • http://www.whattoexpect.com/pregnancy/top-10-things-you-need-to-know-about-the-first-trimester.aspx
  • http://www.thehealthsite.com/pregnancy/the-most-comprehensive-guide-to-first-trimester-dos-and-donts-youll-ever-need/

 

Filed Under: Basil's Blog #AIa, Pregnancy

5 Things to Expect in Your Last Trimester

June 2, 2017 by Basil Puglisi Leave a Comment

The third trimester of your pregnancy is characterized by a mixture of emotions.  By this point, you’ve already formed a bond with your baby, and you can’t wait to meet your new boy or girl.  But you’ve also endured the physical demands of carrying a child for several months.  It’s time for relief.  As you hit the home stretch, expect to encounter these 5 things.

Late Arrival

Your due date is simply an estimate of when you can expect your new bundle of joy.  It’s not an exact science.  In fact, overdue deliveries are extremely common.  If you’re a few days or even a couple weeks past your initial due date, don’t fret.  Pregnancy resource What To Expect specifies the third trimester lasts until week 40.  Around week 42, your doctor will likely induce labor.

Baby’s First Transformation

Your baby goes through several important milestones in this trimester.  His or her eyes open for the first time, the bones reach their final stage of development, the nervous system forms, hair and fingernails grow, and this is when he or she will gain the most weight.

Contractions

It isn’t just your baby going through changes during this time.  You’ll feel it too.  You’ll start to experience Braxton Hicks contractions.  These contractions aren’t the real thing, and you won’t notice a pattern or any increase in strength.  They’ll pop up after you’ve had an active day, and they’ll go away if you simply change positions or use the bathroom.  Real contractions will keep intensifying no matter what you do.

Other Changes in Your Body

The third trimester might be the roughest on your body.  From an achy abdomen to heartburn to varicose veins and stretch marks, you could find that various parts of your body are in pain or are changing.  This is normal, and there’s no need for alarm.

Signs of Labor

Towards the end of your pregnancy, around week 36, you should start looking out for signs that your little guy or girl is ready to make a debut.  These symptoms include your water breaking, true contractions, and the baby’s shifting and dropping on your pelvis.

Pregnancy is a beautiful and life-changing time.  The third trimester is the most active and affecting.  As long as you know what to look for, nothing will surprise you.

 

 

References:

  • http://www.whattoexpect.com/third-trimester-of-pregnancy.aspx
  • http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/pregnancy-week-by-week/in-depth/overdue-pregnancy/art-20048287
  • http://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/pregnancy-week-by-week/in-depth/fetal-development/art-20045997?pg=2
  • http://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/braxton-hicks-contractions-vs-real-contractions#2
  • Photos: CC0 Public Domain

Filed Under: Basil's Blog #AIa, Pregnancy Tagged With: pregnancy, pregnant moms, third trimester

Transition from #Pregnancy to #Parenthood: A Love Path

May 29, 2017 by Basil Puglisi Leave a Comment

Author Eligreg López

For first time parents, pregnancy can be a bliss. If this period is risk-free, you’ll find yourselves awning in the thought of your soon to be born baby. The only thing is nobody is quite prepared for what’s coming. The transition from pregnancy to parenthood is a period of adjustment that most people feel is quite difficult. Nothing in the world can prepare you for this new stage of your life but we would like to share some thoughts with you. Remember that parenthood has never come with a book and no matter how much advice you receive, it’s the experience of holding that child of yours in your arms that will change your perspectives on life.

Parenthood is a universal experience. Since the beginning of life, all beings have reproduced to be able to endure. Us, as humans, experience joy at becoming parents. The catch of this whole situation is becoming a parent for the first time. The transition between these two stages is crucial in the lives of many people and that’s what we’re going to talk about: How to ease the passage from having a baby in your womb to taking care of a baby and choosing how to raise that child.

Educate yourself

The BMC Pregnancy and Childbirth Journal published in 2009 a study on the transition to parenthood. Even though it could be considered outdated, it goes to show the great similarities every parent must face, from the early stages of humankind to their last. Being a single person with no children is certainly different than having to care about someone.

Nobody knows what it means to have children but parents. Seriously. No matter if it is a priest or a teacher: If they don’t have children, it’s impossible to really know what it means to feel the responsibility of being the person designed to care for that human being in such a vulnerable stage of their lives.

The study we previously mentioned was held in the United Kingdom, where people feel in a somewhat stable environment to have children and raise a family. Those interviewed expressed that besides family and friends with children, health professionals and midwives, the main source of reliable information were antenatal courses.

You will never learn everything there is to know about your family and your children but getting educated on these issues can relieve you from many distresses. Nobody knows everything there is to know about children and how to raise a family but it’s alright.

Expectations vs Reality

Pregnancy, when risk-free, can be a bliss. From your family to the media and every surrounding tell you that motherhood will be a joyous experience. You start envisioning every moment of your parenting days as they tell you. The only reference you have is the parents around you and the things you see on the internet, on TV or even in movies. You dedicate in choosing every décor you want for your baby’s nursery and when watching parents you tell yourself what you would do in that situation

The reality is another. When you’re facing your child for the first time you feel love, you feel scared, you feel so many things at once that it overwhelms you but it’s necessary that you know everything is going to be alright.

Children are tiny. There is nothing to fear. Their minds will develop and so will their feelings. We know that this new stage in your life might cause you some distress but that is also why these lines exist. New parents need any help they can receive and family members, friends, health professionals, doulas alongside books, courses and blogs can be quite helpful.

We can’t tell you how it is really going to be. Maybe your experience will be the best in the world or it will feel like drowning sometimes. What matters is that you feel alright most of the time and that your child is being taken care of. You should try to battle those over the top expectations and know that the only thing certain is that you need to have your baby in your arms to know how you feel about parenting.

New beginnings

As Developmental Science talks about it on a post “The transition to parenthood is profound, as many parents already know. Developmental scientists consider it to be one of the most massive reorganizations in the lifespan, changing the brains, endocrine systems, behaviors, identities, relationships, and more, of everyone involved”

Your life changes when you have a child. It seems quite perfect that pregnancy lasts nine whole months where you prepare yourself to birth a child. When that new human being arrives at your life, undoubtedly the feeling starts showing up. Ask any parent.

While pregnant you don’t really know who is that person inside you but once you meet that special little chap, everything you’ve learnt, heard, or read starts to make sense. Good thing that child still needs a lot of closeness and caring in the first years of their lives.

That time when you get to see your child face to face and your parental instinct shows up is when you start to decide your parenting methods and how do you want to approach that child. This is an advice we strongly believe in and we want to teach you. Don’t try to hurry things up. You, as a parent, need your time to figure out things and that’s fine. Everything will find a solution, all you need is to love your child first. Writer Robin Hoffman talks about it in The Huffington Post.

Parenting

Maybe you started outlining your parenting style way before he was born but as we assured before, one definitely know as a parent what will work for each of our families the moment that we have our child in our arms. You might as well choose from this list from Parent.co or outline your own parenting method, the results will be the same: As your child grows, you’ll learn which things work better for you and your family.

As the BMC study outlined, education is the best tool you have. It also showed that mothers were the ones who got more education regarding children upbringing and those first days as parents. It is true that aspects of breastfeeding are almost only concerned to mothers, it is important that in our modern society we keep the other parent involved too. Whoever is raising the children should get totally involved in every aspect of their beings.

Every bit of help to make the transition from pregnancy to parenting is great

We’ve been outlining how impossible it is to know everything about children and parenting from others but we need to remind you that it does help. Try to remember this advice when you’re at that critical moment that is having your newborn in your arms after that busy time pregnancy was.

Parent Partner

If you’re on this journey with company, also remember they exist as people. You need to take care of your partner’s feelings, that’s why you’re together. As they take care of you, you take care of them. It’s just logical. Share the co-pilot seat of parenting with a person that you feel is your accomplice in many aspects of your life. Before baby, during pregnancy, it is good to start outlining parenting methods and when the baby comes you will have a partner in heart and soul.

New baby, new friends.

Trust me on this one. You might keep your closest friends but single people and people with family sometimes don’t match. You’ll find yourself talking about what your child does or doesn’t do, that new thing you read online, the new priorities in your life and if your old friends don’t seem to accept that, you’ll be making new friends. And that is not bad, don’t feel guilty about it. Your priorities are just different.

Remember you are a person too

You liked music before your baby, you liked a certain movie, going to certain places, talk about certain things. Remember all this once your baby is born. You might not have the time or the energy at first but you will, eventually. Remember that you were someone who enjoyed certain things and you need to keep being yourself. Your kid will love you, I can attest that.

If you feel like failing, keep trying.

During pregnancy, the very thought of raising a human being might seem overwhelming. When the baby is here you might feel that too. The love you have for your child will overpower any feeling of failure and you will keep trying to do your best.

Love comes first

A bassinet is good, that new brand of diapers that don’t cause a rash is great, who are going to be the baby’s godparents is also good to know but, above all, love is going to be the most important thing you feel/do/give to your baby. Love your child with all your being and you’ll be the best parent in the world.

That period where you transition from pregnancy to parenthood is crucial in your life. Your baby won’t remember anything, don’t worry. You will figure everything out if you are aware that you love your child and you see what works best for your family. Parenting isn’t easy but millions of parents over the years only prove that parenting is a natural ability. Let your child teach you what love means and you’ll have a hang of parenting.

 

References

  • https://bmcpregnancychildbirth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/1471-2393-8-30
  • http://www.developmentalscience.com/blog/2015/11/30/the-transition-to-parenthood-what-happened-to-me
  • http://www.huffingtonpost.com/robin-hoffman/surviving-to-parenthood_b_6475038.html
  • https://www.parent.co/definitive-parenting-styles/

 

Filed Under: Basil's Blog #AIa, Newborn, Pregnancy Tagged With: baby, newborn baby, pregnancy, pregnant moms

Challenges Gay Men May Face During a Surrogate Pregnancy

May 28, 2017 by Basil Puglisi Leave a Comment

Author Jefferey Spivey

Surrogacy is quickly becoming a more desirable family planning option for gay men in America.  For those men hoping to establish a biological connection with their child, a surrogate pregnancy offers more promise than adoption.  Though the process is exciting, it can also be expensive and full of roadblocks.  You might think the coast is clear once your surrogate is pregnant but you could still face challenges throughout the pregnancy stage.

Ongoing Costs

Your surrogate mother may not be a part of your everyday lives but you’re still responsible for ensuring her health as well as the health of the baby.  Throughout the pregnancy, you’ll foot the bill for her checkups and any required medications like prenatal vitamins.  According to surrogacy company Growing Generations, it’s common for surrogate mothers to undergo more frequent checkups than traditional expectant mothers.  The total cost of the surrogacy process could top out at $150,000.  So, be sure to save up to avoid being caught off guard.

Help for the Mother

As mentioned earlier, it’s likely your surrogate mother will not be close by.  However, she’s still a pregnant woman whose mobility will be reduced as she moves further along in the pregnancy.  It’s important to ensure she has help.  She needs someone with her to help with chores, lifting heavy items, and getting her to and from appointments in the latter stages.  But she’ll also need emotional support.  Plan to check in with her along the way to make sure she’s in a positive place.  You’ll want to get a pulse check on the results from her checkups and keep general tabs on her well-being.

Legal Prep

You’ll probably have a legal team on board before the surrogacy is underway.  During the pregnancy, this is the perfect time to make sure you’ve got all your affairs in order.  Gay parenting and surrogacy laws vary greatly from state to state.  If you aren’t familiar with local regulations, it’s important you study up during this time to make sure you’re acting in accordance with the law.  Gay men are most at risk for legal challenges once the baby is born—especially if the surrogacy is taking place in a foreign country.

Expanding your family is an exciting time.  If you prepare thoroughly, the pregnancy stage will be just as exciting and problem-free.

References:

  • http://itsconceivablenow.com/2011/06/02/surrogacy-challenges/
  • https://www.growinggenerations.com/resources-for-surrogates/what-to-expect-when-youre-a-surrogate/
  • https://www.conceiveabilities.com/about/blog/why-partners-are-important-during-the-surrogate-s-journey

Filed Under: Basil's Blog #AIa, Pregnancy Tagged With: Gay Couples and Baby, LGBTQ, Same Sex Parents, Surrogacy, Surrogate Pregnancy

5 Baby Shower Gifts That Mom Will Love

May 26, 2017 by Basil Puglisi Leave a Comment

With the pregnancy bug in the water system, you are bound to know someone who is having a baby, if you aren’t having one yourself. Pregnant women equal shopping time, and while that might sound fun it can get wild if you don’t narrow it down a little. So, here are 5 gifts that any mother will most certainly be appreciative of. The baby shower gift ideas are great for those who are shopping or for mom’s to put on their gift registry.

  1. Diapers, diapers and more diapers. That is quite a bland gift but a very much needed gift. I don’t any mom who will complain about having too many diapers with a newborn at home. To make diapers snazzy you have to dress it up a bit. You can find diaper cakes in lots of gift sites. Some come with as many as 150 diapers, plus booties, bibs and tons of other essentials for baby, but all in the shape of an all so cute cake.
  2. Layettes, blankets, socks and burp cloths. Chances are they are going to get tons of these. However, these gifts tend to come in newborn or 3 months sizes which after a few weeks probably won’t serve its purpose anymore. Making this a great gift is if you buy them in larger sizes. After a few months, mom still has brand new gifts for the baby to enjoy.
  3. Pamper products for Mom. The last few weeks of pregnancy are very uncomfortable and can be hard on Mom. Let Mom have the star treatment as well. Once the baby is born, Mom’s 15 minutes of fame are over.
  4. Savings Bonds. A savings bond is a great way to help invest in the child’s future. While everyone is thinking of now you are thinking ahead. It may also help jump start parents to jump start on baby’s future if they haven’t already.
  5. Gift Certificates. You can never go wrong with a gift certificate. Mom and Dad get to choose what they want and you gave them that satisfaction. The obvious choice for a gift certificate would where the registry is set up. If they do not have a registry set up, good choices could include their favorite supermarket (formula, diapers) or baby store. Another gift certificate idea could be a check card gift certificate. It works like a credit card and can be used anywhere.

Tip: I don’t suggest buying clothing unless the parents-to-be suggested so. Chances are they have already gone shopping and couldn’t resist those tiny adorable outfits. If you are so inclined to do so, make sure you request a gift receipt.

Filed Under: Basil's Blog #AIa, Pregnancy Tagged With: baby, baby shower, baby shower gift, diaper cakes, gifts

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